Yesterday afternoon I stood on the beach of my new home
town, El Jadida and looked out across the ocean with my sister Jalila. After
standing in silence for several minutes, she suddenly spoke up and said,
“Morocco is beautiful, but this country has many many problems.” I asked her to
elaborate and she began speaking as though someone had just ripped the tape off
of her mouth and she only had so long to say what she needed to say. She began
listing the problems:
1.)There is no opportunity for skilled work in Morocco. You
can only get a job if you know someone in a higher position.
2.) A diploma from a Moroccan university means nothing (even
to Moroccans).
3.) If a student doesn’t pass their Baccalaureate exam
(taken at 15), they can never go to university which means that they have even
less of an opportunity to work.
4.)The cost of living here is about two times higher than
the average income.
5.) There are too many mouths to feed in a single house so
eventually someone from the family must leave to work overseas (usually as a
taxi driver, or in a factory) to send money home.
6.)That person may never come home.
7.) Corruption is everywhere and part of everything.
8.) Because there are too many mouths to feed, parents are
eager to marry their daughters off. Therefore, people do not get married for
love but for monetary gain.
9.) Due to that lack of love, a woman must always fear her
husband’s fidelity in the marriage.
10.) There is a lack of health care for the elderly and
those with chronic illnesses (like Diabetes, which over 60% of the Moroccan
population is afflicted with).
11.) Because of all these problems, Moroccans have developed
a blasé attitude towards life; never dreaming of a better existence in Morocco
or seeing themselves as part of the change.
As
Jalilia was speaking, I noticed that she was listing all of these as separate
issues and I could see how overwhelmed she was by them all. However I on the
other hand, felt a bit like a spider who has been removed from her web. When
you are living the problems and are faced with them every day, it’s hard to see
where one issue begins and ends. But when you are a third party, you can see
exactly how all of these issues are inextricably intertwined. It’s like this:
Let’s say that you are a young man in Morocco. In your house you have about 10
other people who are somehow related to you. Two of those people are older and
ill. If you are lucky enough to have a Dad who is still living, he is working
the majority of the time; you rarely see him. If your mom doesn’t work as a
seamstress or a cook somewhere else, she is taking care of the 9 other people
in the house. Your older siblings end up being the parental figures in your
life. They tell you to go to school; it won’t be long before you have to pass
the Baccalaureate. Your education revolves around passing the test and any
subject that is not part of the exam is stressed as unnecessary. You don’t
develop any skills outside of school and meanwhile you begin to resent the test.
Finally, you take the test and if you pass, you make it into University (if
your parents can help you pay for it). You graduate but there are no jobs for
you. There is pressure to get married so you take a wife. Her dowry may sustain
you for at least year. Maybe by that time you will find a job. But you don’t,
and now she is pregnant. It’s time for you to leave and follow in your fathers
footsteps. You go to France, Italy or Spain to work as a taxi driver and return
home once every 6 months to see your family. Thus the cycle continues.
So here
is the beauty in being a Peace Corps volunteer: I hear these problems and see
the connections and for the first time in my life, I feel like I can actually
do something about it. Yes, there are too many issues for one person to tackle
all at once. But I can at least make a dent in the cycle. And I have proof of
this! I met a young gentleman yesterday who speaks English fluently because of
a former Peace Corps volunteer in his site and now he is currently applying to
work for the American Embassy in Morocco. The volunteer not only encouraged him
to learn English but also helped him dream of something better for himself and
now he is making it on his own. At the end of the day, that is what our work is
all about; Being the catalyst for change and helping others to realize their
own potential. Moroccans are the only ones who can change all of the problems Jalila
listed, but if more Moroccan youth can feel empowered about their future, I
have every faith that that change will come peacefully and gracefully. Let the
work begin!
So nice that you met someone who had been positively influenced by Peace Corps. When it feels like you are a salmon swimming upstream, remember the difference one person can make. You, too are making a bigger difference than you know.
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